31 thoughts on “Amsterdam Is Ordinary. (Why I think it’s just…Okay)”

  1. I’ve heard a few people say the same thing about Amsterdam. The canals really do seem lovely but that probably isn’t enough to fall in love with the city! I enjoyed reading about your trip though, the good and the bad. Very helpful ๐Ÿ™‚

    Happy travels!

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    • Thanks Lauren. I’m glad to hear that l am not the only knew who feels this way. I suppose not every place can be fantastic for everyone, right? Thanks for commenting..

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  2. I seem to end up in Amsterdam every few years. I guess I never had ‘high’ expectations, but I am usually satisfied with the people watching, history, museums, canal tours, and Heineken brewery. It’s become very touristy and overpriced the last time we were there, and I’ve never made it in to the Anne Frank House, but heard it’s quite anticlimactic. You can get out to the countryside quite inexpensively which helps. Having a family, it’s value lies in being relatively easy and accessible, but that probably waters down the charm.

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    • It really was expensive. I don’t mind paying for things that are worth it, but everything was priced for the tourist. Even in the suburb we stayed in, we had sushi, 20 pieces, of which 8 of the pieces was California Roll, and it was โ‚ฌ34!!! (You know l had to buy some Doritos on the way home as l was still hungry..lol!). Maybe l did have too high of an expectation. That’ll teach me won’t it? Lol!!!

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  3. Never been to Amsterdam, but it’s also on my list thanks to its Coffee Shops ๐Ÿ™‚ I personally find it really nice judging from your pictures, but I didn’t know it is so incredibly expensive. The food looks great, though and the fact that I didn’t have breakfast yet doesn’t help :)) And the tattooed lady in the first pic from the Red District… she looks really good too ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • She had a tattoo?? I am laughing so hard, l didn’t notice. I didn’t look at it too closely..lol! I think you would like it then, except for the expensive part. I was such a thicko, it wasn’t till l just happened to mention to my husband how nobody had any coffee when he explained to me..duh! We were having a beer across the way and l was actually curious about the sex shop that you can see next to the coffee shop..lol

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  4. Yes, I’ve been to Amsterdam. It really is a mix bag but I still quite like it. As a girl, I obviously have to move beyond the sex shops and the sleazy old men, and they usually are old men as young guys don’t really have the balls to do anything more than stare LOL!

    I like the fact that Amsterdam a river city, very walkable, gay-friendly and with lots of really interesting museums and galleries and with plenty to do. It can even be charming. In the right light!

    The river cruises are great, the Royal Palace of Amsterdam is beautiful, and if it all gets too much Volendam (a lovely Dutch village) where they have traditional windmills and cheese, isn’t that far away.

    It’s been a few years since I was last there so I can’t remember what I ate and how, LOL! But I do remember eating at restaurants on side streets rather than the main-streets and generally people-watching. Maybe ‘cos I’m British, I didn’t particularly notice the high prices. Everywhere is high in comparison to Berlin LOL!
    Thanks for the lovely write-up. ๐Ÿ™‚

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  5. I’ve never been to Amsterdam, but I kind of felt meh about Florence. I know so many people who would say I’m crazy for saying that, but it was loud, had lots of mosquitoes, and I think I was “art-ed” out by that point. ๐Ÿ™‚ I did like Tuscany overall though but preferred the quieter Siena.

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    • Maybe we’re just getting old..lol! I can understand your feelings about Florence. I love it and have been thrice, but l loved San Giminiano , close to Siena way better.its nice to have so many choices, and l’d hate for everyone to have exactly the same tastes.

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  6. I absolutely loved Amsterdam for the few days that I was there several years ago – I’ve always fantasized about moving there. It seems that the ladies in the red light district are a lot more scantily clad these days though. In any case, I understand that it’s hard to gel with a place when it’s really expensive and when you’re just not having the ideal experience there (you know I feel the same about Budapest). But you gave it a fair shot, and that’s what counts!

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    • The hubby had fantasized of living there as well based on his past visits, but even he had to admit the costs had risen considerably. It felt like Budapest for you! Good thing we are all different.. The ladies certainly were very skimpily dressed..lol

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  7. I’m so sorry to hear Amsterdam didn’t meet your expectations! I’ve always disliked it, although it has been because of different reasons.

    As a Dutchie i can confirm there are better places in holland to be spending your time in, however you did pick the most touristy places of the city. That means costs adding up quickly, just like in any other capital city. There are many great (and sort of affordable) places to visit and eat at if you search outside of the center. The Jordaan is a great place to wander around in and grab a bite. So is ‘de Pijp’.

    About the red light district: I really don’t get why it’s still so popular among tourists. Like you said, the women look tired and unhappy and most of them are. What many people don’t know is the fact that there’s still a huge problem with sex traffic and illegal prostitutes in the city (and throughout the country). The red light district especially is still a place of drug and sex related crimes. The government is trying to get a grip on the situation by cleaning out the red light district, making it a place for designers and other creatives. Unfortunately it’s still a place where I don’t feel safe in.

    I do hope you return one day, if only to see similar cities like Haarlem or Leiden. Both great places without the touristy feel of Amsterdam ๐Ÿ™‚

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    • Thanks for the comment Rose. Looking back, l realize that maybe my expectations were indeed too high. I know when people tell me they don’t like London, l freak out ๐Ÿ™‚ as it is my favorite place that l have been so far and something keeps drawing me back. You know the bartender that l had mentioned told us that he lived outside of the city, and that it was more affordable. I wish l could remember the name of the suburb that we had stayed at. It was nice, but very expensive there too, so we would have to go even further out. If we had stayed longer, we probably would have dug deeper, but on a visit to Amsterdam, l wanted to do the touristy things :-). I hope they do eventually get a grip on the situation at the red light district. It sucks to hear about the sex traffic. I felt for those women, l really did. I can imagine what it does to the self esteem. My husband had always said if he were to pick a place to live, it would be London and Amsterdam a close second. He changed his mind on our visit (he had been there years before), but we wouldn’t mind going back to another part, like the cities you mention. I will be on the lookout for those places. Thanks again for the suggestions, Andiamo l say if l find a good flight ๐Ÿ™‚ .

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  8. Hi,

    As a resident of Amsterdam – I choose to settle here about five years ago – I can say that one of the pressing issues is the way that tourism has affected the city in certain areas. From your pictures you seem to have chosen these areas mostly, but there are many better! And we are taking action against the worst tourist excesses so perhaps the center will recover in time.

    But even so, my shortlist was Stockholm, Paris, Copenhagen, Barcelona and London – all places I have lived and worked. I chose Amsterdam and have not regretted it for a second!

    Perhaps you need to try again with a better guide. The city is anything but ordinary.

    Regards,

    Mike

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    • Hi Mike!
      First of all thanks a lot for your comment and for taking the time to point out why l might have had those feelings. Amsterdam much like other popular cities is experiencing such major shifts in tourism that it’s hard to grasp. I was just reading an article of what Amsterdam is trying to do to combat the drunk tourists that litter too.

      The first time l visited Barcelona, I didn’t like it much either and yes, the second time it was a lot better, not wonderful, but better. I think l had to get out of the “touristy” places. I think next time, I will try other areas, someone suggested Rotterdam which sounds great to me.

      Your shortlist of cities sound amazing. London is my favorite city in the world and would live there in a heartbeat. Paris is a close second. I absolutely adored Copenhagen and Stockholm but both really expensive, too expensive for my blood :-). I’m glad you’re having an awesome time in Amsterdam. Sounds like the perfect fit for you. Mine is Valencia. Just the right size.

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  9. The red light is not “sex trafficking” it is a professional area (they pay taxes, have a trade union etc) which is widely misunderstood. It is an area safe for the workers and the clients and because it is above board any illicit activity seen is easy to report because the business is not a crime. Some exploitation occurs but way less than anywhere else.

    ext time perhaps you should visit the Museum of Prostitution – somewhat misleading named Red Light Secrets – which is a non-exploitative, non titillating, factual and unbiased exhibition of what it is really all about – good and bad. It is well worth a visit.

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    • Hi Mike,
      I didn’t say they were sex trafficking at all. They are grown people who made the decision to offer their services for money and l know they pay taxes and it’s a profession, It may not be everyone’s cup of tea. My thing was that those girls, at least the one l saw had a tiredness about them, and l expected them to have more customers. Instead it seemed most tourists just go to gawk, and then go to the bars to drink and l’m pretty sure they go back home and lie :-).

      I love the fact that there is a museum for everything imaginable, including prostitution. I might just have to start a separate blog. I already have enough asshats spamming me who think El Born as in Barcelona means El Porn :-). I can just imagine how crazy they would go with that :-).

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  10. “The” red light district is only one of several areas and sex workers mostly prefer the outlying ones to being gawked at by tourists.Guided tours of the main district have already been banned and further measures are planed. Not for any moral reasons, simply to provide a better environment for a traditional and legal trade. As for the tiredness – yes. It is a constant, wearying hassle in the main district, and besides – basically the job is very boring. I’ve heard it described as long dull period punctuated by sex with strangers. But when the average transaction is six minutes, from tapping on the door to leaving, it doesn’t use much time.

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    • It’s nice to know the government is being proactive as it seemed to be getting out of hand. Six minutes!!! Wow!that is much quicker than l thought!!! :-). I can imagine how dull and tiring it must be for them.

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  11. I completely agree with you. I am 26 so kind of young I guess, but even then there are so many better places to party like Berlin and Prague that are WAY more cheaper and as much fun, if not more. I partied in Berlin and it was much more fun. But I guess drugs are much easier to find in Amsterdam.
    The place is just too commercialized now, you only see tourists everywhere.
    Either ways I still recommend people visit Amsterdam but definitely not more than 2 days. There are a lot of interesting cities and small towns close to Amsterdam to visit instead like Rotterdam, Groningen, Hague and Utrecht.

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    • Thanks for adding a “young” voice to the discussion. I really thought l might have been just too old and l just didn’t get it. You’re right, it is way too much at this point and l know the city is trying to curb the over tourism. I did enjoy my visit to Berlin as well. While l didn’t love Prague, I didn’t dislike it as much as l did Amsterdam.

      I would definitely love to visit Rotterdam. I am hearing good things and hopefully won’t become like its neighbor. Utrecht, l also like the looks of so l would definitely like to visit.

      Thanks for the comment. Much appreciated :-).

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  12. I love your article. The beauty of Amsterdam is gone because the real Amsterdam people are mostly gone. It has become more a yuppy kitty that a city for the common Amsterdam people. I don’t know if you went to Lam Yin. A Surinam/Chinese restaurant at the beginning of Warmoesstraat (ne CS Amsterdam) They have good food for an affordable price. Nothing fancy, but good. Amsterdam has become an average city like the rest of Europe because of the Multinational shops. It is not the same anymore with the little shop owners it had in the 80s. Haarlemmerdijk is a bit normal less touristic street, where you can find some real/more daily Amsterdam life. The real Amsterdam people have lots of humor even when they’re mad. But that’s something that is been seen ver rarely nowadays. Like… When a guy sees a friend he will say; “Hey ugly one! Did they allow you to be in the streets?” And the other will respond: “Your mirror must be broken, otherwise you would have stayed at home” This is how ‘real’ Amsterdam people use to talk to each other with a smile. Because life is a joke and you better make it funny. ๐Ÿ˜‰ โ€” But that is mostly gone โ€” Sometime you’ll find it at a weekly market just outside the city center at the Albert Cuyp.

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    • I can just imagine how frustrating it must be for someone from Amsterdam to see what the city is becoming/ has become and remember how it used to be. I’m all for people discovering new places and traveling, but sometimes l shake my head at the horrible behaviours. It’s like being away from home gives them a license to be asshats with cleanliness, disturbing the peace and getting drunk. The little shops do indeed get crowded out and everyplace starts to look the same with the big name brands etc.

      The same thing that is happening in other places like Barcelona and Venice for instance. Valencia is trying to prevent the same by tackling AirBnB and others like it before it gets to the point of no return. I think the desire for the tourist dollars outweighed the needs of the people for a long time and now all are grappling with the rash decisions. Hopefully they can work out something that will help both sides.

      I think if l visit Amsterdam area, I will opt for Rotterdam. Haha! I love the local humour. It sounds idyllic, and definitely something that l would participate in. Life is indeed a joy and laughter is the best medicine. Thanks for the laugh, it really cracked me up :-).

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